Life Goal : 5 year plan.

Inspired by a friend's instagram on his 5 year plan, I had a good look on my life lately and I think all my goals are dead.
Buried deep under reality and responsibility.
Before this, my plan was something like this:
22 - Finished Engineering Degree
22 - Travel at least around Malaysia, and maybe Thailand and what not, then get a job.
25 - Buy house
28 - Get married, become principal engineer
32 - At least two kids, start business with enough capital

Hmm take a look at that. I guess the ones that I could tick off would be like this:

22 - Finished Engineering Degree
22 - Travel at least around Malaysia, and maybe Thailand and what not, then get a job.
25 - Buy house
28 - Get married, become principal engineer
32 - At least two kids, start business with enough capital

Haha. So why is my plan spiraling out of control?
Easy. My dad was sick with cancer. I can't afford to go anywhere as he needs me to visit him every week. He wish to see me get a good job. He wish to see me married.

So yeah, basically, I did not achieved my target on time, but wayyyy earlier than that.

So now that I think of it, I'm going to start a new goal, on yearly basis.

Life goal:

2013:
1. Find a business to do
2. Own a house(tak dapek lagi, katanya 2014..)
3. Create an office at home.
4. Open a stall in BK.(Tak minat, tuka lain!)

2014:
1. Running stall weekly at BK. Pasar malam.
2. Save RM300 per month(RM3600 saving)
3. Quit job(Latest Sept)
4. At least 6 hantaran/hamper monthly, max 20 customer. (Jan -Yes!)
5. Open a shop(Sept)
6. A house(Sambungan last year)


2015:
1. Running stall weekly at BK.
2. Maybe start Dais making(?)
3. At least 10 hantaran monthly
4. RM500 saving monthly (RM6000 saving)

2016:
1. Running stall weekly at BK.
2. At least 4 dais in shop
3. At least 20 hantaran monthly.
4. RM700 saving monthly (RM8400 saving)

2017:
1. Open a shop(Saving at least RM18,000)
2. Night only BK stall (Friday and Sat)
3. At least 8 dais
4. At least 25 hantaran per monthly.

2018:
1. Create new 5 year plan!

Weekend update: Ayer hitam.

Hello readers.

Last week, I did a bouquet for my friend's hub.

It was made with 6 white roses, button mums, purple statice and white aster. 

I've send it in a box, and I will send it in bigger box next time.

The bouquet.

This kid is now a champion in flipping.

Seen here, not even 2 minutes arrived at mom's house he's already flipping. =.=

Went dinner with sista and brother.

Yums!

No picture taken. haha

The kid is so hungry, the nipple was squished.

Going to Ayer Hitam to buy goodies. 

Buying a lot of dulang for sewa and hantaran.

*pakai baju ex daddy katanya. huahahahaa.

This shirt was given by my ex bf, and hub was teasing me, ahh this is ur ex daddy, he give u this shirt, bla2. No way Jose!*

We at Ayer Hitem.

The kid was serious because it's too bright. Teehee.

Here's the loot. 

Check here for more dulang to rent

I did a two face diaper cake for my sis' friend's new born

The kid is sitting down with Daddy watching TV shows. Daddy making faces. Grr

The kid milestone(4m2w)that I can think off:

1. Able to flip front to back, back to front

2. Able to grasp on toy and pass from right hand to left hand and vice versa

3. Sit without toppling.

4. Grasp on my baju/tudung when I hold him

Pregnancy progress : 6 Months!

Oh yes, time flies!
I'm currently 2 days shy off 6months, and I'm not gaining any weight.
It's bizarre and my nurse and mom are now asking me to up my intake of this and that, but I'm just not gaining any!

Last checkup on Tuesday, I even lost 2 kg, when I supposed to gain 2 kg! So the nurse whisked me away to see the doctor, and other than I'm losing weight, the baby and my body pretty much is in great conditions. I feel a surge of emotions when I saw the baby on the scanner *he looks so much more as a mini baby now, not just a blob here and there* and he was very still during scanning, but otherwise, before and after the scanning, he was freaking active! Playing around in his mummy tummy. My blood pressure, hb, pulse, everything is good! The uterus is now 24cm, an additional 5cm from last 3 weeks!

And a lot of my friends telling me my skin now much more cleaner than before. Like those pesky pimples? I'm losing them as fast as I'm writing this, nearly all pimples gone, and only left those redness thingy. They are asking what product I'm using and all, but truthfully, I don't use any product at all. Apart from darlie, dettol, and shampoo, I think I stop using most of the things I used to love. Those eyeliner and lipstick all have been crying to get my attention, but I'm too lazy to do it. :D Maybe today when we are going out during iftar I will don them :)

My bump is now more pronounced than before! Before I think I just look veryyyy big, but now, look more like pregnant mom. Tsk. Yet, most of my office mate just know that I'm pregnant. And they are thinking I'm 3 months along now. Oh wow. Don't I look like a preggers? I guess it because I'm fat. Tsk tsk. But hubby saying I probably lose all the extra weight fast, since I don't gain much now. *a glimmer of hope*

The baby bump. *oh proud momma!*

This morning during sahur, I've asked hubby, on whose eye will the baby take, his euro style eyes or my cat eye, and he told me confidently the baby will have his pretty eyes, his nose, his lips, but the baby will get my skin color. And when I asked why, he simply said, cause he's a boy, he should take after his dad. *grin*

Oh bless. I've been married for 9 months, and carrying baby for 6 months. The marriage, although we are full of doubts before, we are more comfortable now. We still learning how to deal with each other *he's a saver, I'm a spender* and we don't have energy to fight much. Cause, at the end of the day, you know he's going to be there, and it's not like he's going to leave any second now for somebody else. The insecurities are still there, but not as much, and so far we still try to be honest with each other. *except I'm buying another book yesterday when I already spent 200 on books just last week. :p *

Oh well. Time flies really fast. It still haven't sunk that I'm going to be a mother, but I'm proud with my baby already. Hopefully I won't turn into those cool people turns to lousy people keep on talking bout pregnancy and baby all the time. Amin. :)

Well, this all for now, back to work, and I hope to finish everything before I'm going back to Sarawak! Weee~

My-fiance-to-be~

So, as we both don't have anything to do last week, we attend pre-wedding course *kursus pra perkahwinan*.

*tunang pon belom, semangat pegi kursus kahwin. :P *

Although its quite expensive (RM120) but okay lah. Only feel sleepy, as usual when you are hearing sermons :p

But the only thing I love is seeing my bf in songkok! *So bloody cute!*

Its too much to ask for him to wear baju melayu, so, songkok pon jadilahhh.

Cuteeeee

*Gedik*

Berangan? :P

Thanks hun! And happy monthly-sary switie! We are now 2years and 10months! Woohoo!

Life & dinner

Yes, back at PTP fo internship, & feels like d time is too fast when at home. Its raining non stop,n watching tv5, on singapore talking, d topic? Underage sex. Interesting as its taboo n d kids are uhming n ahming as d reporter asking qs.hehe.
Life here is kinda hectic & dull at d same time. Day goes by so fast, but still there are a lot to do. While nights feel so long, I feel like screaming sometimes doing d same thing everyday. Sighh

& now, eating dinner consist of sushi & my mom's peparu. Can u see d roses?am trying to dye them.hoho. & reading female. Read marie claire yest, & reading this now, before moving on to cleo.

& u know what? I said time & again, & Im tired of being fat. I need to change d way I eat, as I had walk 10k steps everyday, so I need to watch what I eat. My fav baju kurung cant muat anymore. How could that be? Sobs. So yeah. No more bad food. I hope to be stronger in order to get my life babe. I was a bombshell b4, what d heck happen?

Haizzzzz. I dun feel attractive ne more. T.T

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